My First Post!

Many times throughout my adult life, I found myself wishing I had an "adult" figure to talk to I longed for a mother figure to confide in. I wanted to turn to someone in my life with my big decisions and ask "What do you think?" In attempts to fill the void for other people. I'm here to hear you out. I'm with you. Sometimes it is so much easier to talk to a stranger. So what if they judge me? When do I ever have to answer to them? There's comfort to be had in anonymity. So let's talk! 

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Conflict. Am I the problem?

Conflict is a natural part of life. It is inevitable. Recently I have been through conflict that I would have loved someone to listen. Someone who wasn't involved with the dumpster fire. Someone who could objectively take in the information and offer support. By support, I mean to either tell me I'm not crazy or that I'm being an asshole. Sometimes we need to hear both, or one over the other. 

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When is it time to let go?

There’s that person. That ride or die. The one you have been emotionally and psychologically codependent on for years. To the point it is unhealthy. To the point it makes you unwell to tend to their needs. The double standards, and the emotional energy that you simply cannot afford anymore. You are weighed down. You are tired. Nothing you seem to do is enough for them. You are anxious thinking about when the ball will drop. When are the guilt trips and the badgering going to start? This relationship is causing you your peace. You are so overwhelmed with the demands that you silence their notifications on every outlet. It’s time, babe. It’s time to let it go. Give yourself the grace you need to heal. It’s going to hurt, but eventually, imagine the peace that you will feel. Imagine what your thoughts will have the time and space to exist without being smothered by the stress of someone else. There will be peace. Let them go. If it costs you your peace, it is too expensive. You can’t afford that anymore.

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