Many times throughout my adult life, I found myself wishing I had an "adult" figure to talk to I longed for a mother figure to confide in. I wanted to turn to someone in my life with my big decisions and ask "What do you think?" In attempts to fill the void for other people. I'm here to hear you out. I'm with you. Sometimes it is so much easier to talk to a stranger. So what if they judge me? When do I ever have to answer to them? There's comfort to be had in anonymity. So let's talk! 

Conflict is a natural part of life. It is inevitable. Recently I have been through conflict that I would have loved someone to listen. Someone who wasn't involved with the dumpster fire. Someone who could objectively take in the information and offer support. By support, I mean to either tell me I'm not crazy or that I'm being an asshole. Sometimes we need to hear both, or one over the other.